Love:
Every one accept that parents show the true love towards their children, but whenever they are asked to say about the definition of love, they will always say something different searching from net. But why dont they search their answer from their parents true love?
Parents give out all their external happiness for the sake of children they always be happy by seeing their children happy.
A Husband feels happy by providing all the requirements for their children and his wife and finds his happiness in their happiness.
A Mother takes her child to the doctor for vaccination even though she knows that the vaccination leads her child to fever for next two days. She never accepts her child to affect with fever but she intentionally take him for vaccination because she wants her child not to be affected by any disease at the age of 20 or 30 and die suddenly. So for the long and healthier cause she bears the grief for that small period.
A Teacher spends his holidays to learn new things to teach his children and finds his happiness in the success of those children.
Father show his anger on his child when he fails in his exam just to keep him in the right direction, but actually its not that father gets angry when child fails, it is that father acts anger on his child so that he might not miss the better opportunities.
Husband will not be happy when he was alone in ooty or simla, he will be in grief because his children and wife are in different place and not enjoying like him and he will be sure to get their wife and children in the next trip.
Brother/sister will leave a big piece of cake for his small brother/sister and finds his happiness in the happiness of his small brother.(This is what i think love is, May be some of the above things may not be found today because of the influence of movies or some other things but every one agrees that it is the love. dont you...?)
So its my definition for love........
LOVE: " Love gives happiness and satisfaction to you and its not the happiness which we expect from the acts of others its the happiness that we find in others happiness by the acts of ourself " - Shankar.
Today the cineworld was giving a complete wrong idea on this word "love". One day i was talking to a child of 4th class and dont know how i get that question i asked him "Do you love your parents?". I was shocked with his answer, he said "chi, evaraina premistara ammani.naaku amma ante chaala ishtam". See how this films influenced the child, love doesn't means the affection between the young boy and a lady. Its just the affection and finding your happiness.
Today there are increasing ravanas(the daemon in ramayan) in the society in the name of lovers. This is the word for those lovers who thinks that the lover should should be taken away and they should lead their own life.
You say that "love needs bravery", then why dont you stop flirting the girl and directly talk to their parents if you are brave. And i dont think taking away lover from the place actually where she/he gets actual love, where there is a family looking for her/him always trying to keep her/him happy is a love. I think its not the love its the selfishness of you to get him/her.if you are really brave get to his parents and convince them but dont drag him/her out of the wonderful home built by love for last 20 years.
Sorry if i hurt anybody. These are my views about the love(affection and finding happiness in the happiness of others).
